[…] we need to study ourselves.
To find out what side of the brain we are dominant in.
(Left brain being the rational side, right brain being the emotional.)
Then we need to spend as much time as we can exposing ourself to influences from the other side.
Because whatever side is dominant is our comfort zone.
We’ll naturally gravitate to that.
But anything we learn in our comfort zone won’t give us any new combinations.
Whereas whatever we learn on the other side of the brain gives us a completely new set of possible links to our existing side.
So we should force ourselves to experience whatever we’re not comfortable with.
If you’re a numeric person, force yourself to experience art and music.
If you’re a visual person, force yourself to read more books.
If you like fiction, make yourself to read non-fiction.
If you like rock music make yourself listen to Classic FM.
While we’re in our comfort zone we’re on auto pilot.
We’re relaxing and letting it wash over us.
But when we move out of our comfort zone our mind is forced to think.
Forced to try to find something good in what we don’t like.
Staying in our comfort zone just means staying with what we already know.
There’s no growth there.
No possibilities for new combinations.
Paul Arden used to say, “It’s good to feel uncomfortable.”
We shouldn’t be frightened to feel uncomfortable.
We don’t need to live in either of the two big comfortable, predictable circles.